Post by sootycat on Aug 22, 2011 12:52:09 GMT
Hello chums x 
Well thank you all for the messages..i thought i would give you all closure after all the ranting and raving i used to do on here about my trips to dad. !!
Things got bad in April,we called the G.P in against dads wishes..that was hard, begging a G.P. dad was horrified when she arrived but commented straight away how much she looked like Kirsty Allsop!! location,location!!
He became a social service case straight away, albeit he was off their radar,not even registered as having a bus pass, well he had not been out for 20 years!! He had to prove his I.D.
Dad had 3 visit a day from 2 nice Nigerian carers, one was always on duty ,Damilola, as you know my dad was like Alf Garnett but he never once made the wrong comments!! Dad fell in love with Matron and asked her hand in marriage, his jaw dropped when she told him she was not available!!! we all fell in love with Lyn the Matron from Walthstow!!
Dad had an electric bed installed down stairs and and band of nursses as he wanted to remain at home..also meals on wheels, he didnt like the dinner but he like the ladies that delivered it !!
My eldest bro sent a union jack floral tribute at radom..as dad very proud of union jack, so the fyuneral directors covered his coffin with a union jack too..the minster delivered a very un p.c. send off which was a real larf,,,i cannt say on this website the stuff but sure you can improvise..Tesco order got canceled the day the G.P arrived thank good, he wasnt happy about that by the way!!
His milkman arrived at funeral in his milk float as the milky was dads first primary carer!! along with the window cleaners and Tesco.com..drivers who regularly called 999 or picked him up .
Dad died while i was on the fone..i knew he was shutting down but not that quick!!
I'm applying for probabte etc and the house is on the market today..so organized. This year i spent 2 months in total living with dad..i left under a black cloud good friday ,never to return but hey i did return out of shear fate,long story...dad said he was glad we were ffriends again....i will miss dad but i'm so relieved now...he was a tuff act to follow...bye for now..Cherry i have me friend from Boughton visiting me on wednesday...my friend since i was 15 years old...that 40 years of friendship if your are counting....much love everyone...i hope i have help other in a similar situation as myself and dad...so have it much worse i suppose..my dad had to have 2 pairs of soxs cut off his feet in April..he was so happy we got him help in the end..as he self neglected and was a manic depressive .he co operated once me broke him down.. o wot fun xxxxxxxxxxxx
Well thank you all for the messages..i thought i would give you all closure after all the ranting and raving i used to do on here about my trips to dad. !!
Things got bad in April,we called the G.P in against dads wishes..that was hard, begging a G.P. dad was horrified when she arrived but commented straight away how much she looked like Kirsty Allsop!! location,location!!
He became a social service case straight away, albeit he was off their radar,not even registered as having a bus pass, well he had not been out for 20 years!! He had to prove his I.D.
Dad had 3 visit a day from 2 nice Nigerian carers, one was always on duty ,Damilola, as you know my dad was like Alf Garnett but he never once made the wrong comments!! Dad fell in love with Matron and asked her hand in marriage, his jaw dropped when she told him she was not available!!! we all fell in love with Lyn the Matron from Walthstow!!
Dad had an electric bed installed down stairs and and band of nursses as he wanted to remain at home..also meals on wheels, he didnt like the dinner but he like the ladies that delivered it !!
My eldest bro sent a union jack floral tribute at radom..as dad very proud of union jack, so the fyuneral directors covered his coffin with a union jack too..the minster delivered a very un p.c. send off which was a real larf,,,i cannt say on this website the stuff but sure you can improvise..Tesco order got canceled the day the G.P arrived thank good, he wasnt happy about that by the way!!
His milkman arrived at funeral in his milk float as the milky was dads first primary carer!! along with the window cleaners and Tesco.com..drivers who regularly called 999 or picked him up .
Dad died while i was on the fone..i knew he was shutting down but not that quick!!
I'm applying for probabte etc and the house is on the market today..so organized. This year i spent 2 months in total living with dad..i left under a black cloud good friday ,never to return but hey i did return out of shear fate,long story...dad said he was glad we were ffriends again....i will miss dad but i'm so relieved now...he was a tuff act to follow...bye for now..Cherry i have me friend from Boughton visiting me on wednesday...my friend since i was 15 years old...that 40 years of friendship if your are counting....much love everyone...i hope i have help other in a similar situation as myself and dad...so have it much worse i suppose..my dad had to have 2 pairs of soxs cut off his feet in April..he was so happy we got him help in the end..as he self neglected and was a manic depressive .he co operated once me broke him down.. o wot fun xxxxxxxxxxxx
